Meeting Online Vietnamese

[TadaoKumagai]

For a better comparison, I will choose 3 picture I grab online, which I consider 7/10. somewhere close to each other

[MoJoe313]

I personally dont think any 3 are pretty. Maybe 4/10. Meaning just average. Any girl at this age just needs to put on some make up to achieve this kind of result. Google the power of make up.



The older bros will tell you looks is not the most important thing. A malaysia king recently wed a Russian beauty queen and divorced her in one year. Character oust looks. A woman's beauty come from within. But you are new to this. One day, when you are older you will understand. Right now, make the mistakes we made to learn what we learned.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

I personally dont think any 3 are pretty. Maybe 4/10. Meaning just average. Any girl at this age just needs to put on some make up to achieve this kind of result. Google the power of make up.



The older bros will tell you looks is not the most important thing. A malaysia king recently wed a Russian beauty queen and divorced her in one year. Character oust looks. A woman's beauty come from within. But you are new to this. One day, when you are older you will understand. Right now, make the mistakes we made to learn what we learned.

Your standard must be very high...haha.
I know the power of makeup. When I do video call with her, she not wearing makeup.

If like that consider 4/10 , then my own appearance must be negative liao.... LOL

[chaoslord]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

I always live my life without any expectation, therefore I will never be disappointed.

This is very important in my view. If you can truly follow this thinking, you would be fine. Mismatch of expectations would often lead to disappointment.

Relationships with WL's are never easy and dealing with jealousy and other negative feelings that would arise due to the nature of their job would be a critical aspect that you would need to learn to deal with. In your case it seems like you have tuned your mindset accordingly.

I wish you the best.

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Your standard must be very high...haha.
I know the power of makeup. When I do video call with her, she not wearing makeup.

If like that consider 4/10 , then my own appearance must be negative liao.... LOL

Like I said, you dont have to seek anyone's endorsement. You happy can already. Bec you are the one seeing her face every day, not us.

[larue]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Of course, No expectation, no disappointment. But till now , conversation direction and details is on the bright side. It normal to be sceptical.

You don't even realize it, but you have already loaded a lot of expectation onto this relationship because you are completely infatuated with her.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by larue

You don't even realize it, but you have already loaded a lot of expectation onto this relationship because you are completely infatuated with her.

Well, I diffrentiate Expactation, fantasize and etc similar...
It will be a lie that I have 0 expectation in term of marriage lifestyle, ,sexual style etc...

But if you refer to the expectation of living hood standard or green hat, this relevant area, then I have no expectation for this

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by funboi

anyway, IF she ask u to meet up.

My suggestion is

1: You fly to vietnam meet her and see her shop etc and find out more. a $500 trip surely you can afford it.

2: She fly to sg and IF ticket is pay by you? Ask her send you passport and you book ticket on behalf. NV EVER send money to someone u not meet b4 etc.

In event she fly into sg and MIA fly kite you block you? Report to police and ica say she missing person and let police investigate if its a scam for cheating your air-ticket to work illegally in sg cuz u have evidence of text and booking of tickets.

At the same time, IF she ask you for your information such as full name, nric, passport etc, please do not give her. There are many online identity theft. Some of the foreigners took the info and use it for other purposes.

if ask why she should give u her info? cuz whoever paying money for the ticket is towkay mah. aimai maisua.

I fly over to meet her, she ask me prepare 1000-1500... for 5 day duration staying there....
Which include meet parents , family dinner, present etc... food/dating activity, etc... at first I find it crazy need to bring so much, but on second thought, maybe First Impression need to spent that much....

I fly to meet her, she will be picking me up. N, book hotel near her area which she can find cheap.accomodation...
I am bagpacker style so for 4 star hotel all that, I will never waste money on it.

I tried once in the past, totally regret, room is nice , facility all that is nice, but totally never use it, and have to pay expensive price just to sleep and rest only....

I am AIRBNB style, anywhere I go, I book via AIRBNB

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by funboi

so whats her education level in vietnam? and which part of vietnam?

Ho Chi.Minh, and I dont care about her education since I dont like study myself.

[oldtiko]

Bro, as a long time lurker on this forum.
Word of advise, get to know them first even before u dive in.
U may think u got nothing to lose but everything to lose.

Furthermore, the process of getting her LTVP will depend very much on you. There is hidden cost in your marriage that is unforeseeable.

Just being kaypoh

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by oldtiko

Bro, as a long time lurker on this forum.
Word of advise, get to know them first even before u dive in.
U may think u got nothing to lose but everything to lose.

Furthermore, the process of getting her LTVP will depend very much on you. There is hidden cost in your marriage that is unforeseeable.

Just being kaypoh

haha, I dont expect zero.cost... but so long as for the time being no need money for wedding, I.satisfy.liao, LTVP or etc fees or hidden cost, those cannot be avoided der....

You only live once, just YOLO. I have no savings, I have no 'burdern to carry' so lose money. lose lor... just wait salary paycheck money in again...

[ZanShen]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

I heard it, aware of it, definitely if one live their lives afraid of this and that, there will be no result out.of.it

I like your quote. Inventing new possibility, Love it!

[ZanShen]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Beautiful Chin

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by funboi

she very well planned.

Lai lai, brother elaborate more leh....

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

This part tricky. I wouldn't lend her money or go into debt for her. That's not part of the agreement. But bec she is your wife, you tend to sympathize. Then when things go sour, you feel cheated of money. Suggest you both just stick to the agreement. No lending. Let her earn the money first. When it happens, then do the biz.

Clarify with her for her total Debt Issues.
Total debt around 3000+... so just need roughly 3 month salary to cover it.

Coffeeshop.rental fee, need to clarify with her again