A guru sent me the following email to promote his product. I hv my comments below.
The Only 2 Ways To Make Her Yours
There are only two paths to making a girl your girlfriend:
The first, is the “logical” path:
- You show her what a great guy you are…
- You demonstrate everything you have to offer her…
- You try to convince her you’re boyfriend material…
And… If the timing’s just right…
And she doesn’t have any ‘better’ options…
Then maybe, just maybe, she’ll agree to be your girlfriend.
The problem with this path is, it’s unreliable….
It can take years…
And even when it DOES work…
She’ll always feel like she’s ‘settling’ for you…
Forever wondering if there’s a more exciting guy out there for her.
The 2nd path to making her yours…
Is to forget about all the logical reasons she ‘should’ want to be with you…
And instead focus on TURNING HER ON.
Because here’s what a lot of men don’t realize:
When you make a woman feel powerful, sexual emotions.
Those feelings of arousal OVERRIDE her rational mind…
And any reasons she might have for NOT being with you…
Are literally erased from her brain.
In fact, new research from MIT has revealed...
Once a girl gets turned on in a certain way…
The LOGICAL parts of her brain literally shut down.
As her raw, animal instincts take over…
And all she can think about, is landing the guy who gives her these feelings.
It’s called THE OVERRIDE EFFECT
And guys who have the MOST success with women…
Can trigger it in a woman during casual conversation.
So she has no idea what you’re up to…
No clue why she suddenly can’t stop thinking about getting naked with you…
And SHE convinces HERSELF that you’re the only guy for her.
If you want to know how to trigger the override effect in any woman…
And turn her on during casual conversation…
Make sure to watch this video right now <====
It shows you exactly how the override effect works…
And exactly what to do to unleash its powerful effects in any woman you choose.
It’s like having a secret weapon she’s powerless to resist.
Check it out here
I agree that arousing a girl is the best way to make a girl/woman yours. The logical path can get you her pussy, but you will not capture her heart.
The author is trying to sell his program called Speak to Spark Arousal. IMHO, speaking and small talk play a very minor role in arousing a girl or getting her addicted to you. It's not what you say, it's how you say it.
You attract n arouse her by being The Prize. You demonstarte your dominant and non-reactive body language, eye contact, facial micro-expressions, voice tonality and behaviour. Be completely non-reactive to your dream girl's shit tests, insults, challenges n emotional drama.
A satiated man gets invited to banquets, whereas a hungry man stays hungry. Same with sex and women. Having 2-3 LPs/mistresses/lovers/GFs will keep you very satiated. All the other SYTs will want you to make love to them. They can sense your sexual energy/vibes and non-reactive body language...they will start fantasizing getting fucked by you. Their only question left is how long can you last...
Is there a man with such awesome non-reactive behaviour and self mastery? I hv not personally met such a man. There is a fictional character though, Humphrey Bogart. Watch his movies!
Do use touch and massage to physically arouse a girl. It's like adding fuel to fire. Don't forget to arouse her emotionally and make her react to you, not the other way round.
Having sex constantly makes a guy feeling young and youthful.
Hope all enjoy sex after reading.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Good afternoon to all samsters!
Are you having enough pleasurable sex? If not, get as much as you possibly can. Do whatever it takes. But don't use force or do anything illegal, pls.
Why is pleasurable sex so important?
Because your life depends on it!
Let me share an email by a guru:
“Eroticism is the antidote to death”
- Esther Perel author ‘Mating in Captivity’
Your aliveness and vitality depend on pleasure.
Without eroticism, life loses meaning and purpose.
Your health and longevity depend upon it too!
No joke.
If you let sexual activity and connection fade away, your body takes it as an evolutionary signal to start shutting down.
“Hey hormones, biochemical factories, this body’s not a baby factory anymore. Only put resources where they’re needed!”
Whether you plan to procreate or not, in order to to operate at peak performance, with energy and creativity to spare, your body needs to believe it’s a hot and juicy sex machine.
Whether it’s self-pleasuring or intimate connection with a lover, are you prioritizing sexual pleasure?
Sex hormones are the hormones of life.
Orgasm releases a cascade of life enhancing chemicals and hormones:
Oxytocin, the love hormone, reduces anxiety and depression by lowering cortisol
Oxytocin also lowers carbohydrates cravings, so orgasm helps to regulate weight
Testosterone levels rise, adding fire to desire, improving mood, memory and sexual appeal
Prolactin release is responsible for causing stem cells in the brain to develop new neurons
Have I got your attention?
Studies have shown that having sex 3 times a week or more, can add as much as 3 years to your life expectancy and make you look 10 years younger.
Are you seeing the benefits?
Do you have a plan for total sexual vitality, expression and fulfillment?
Do you think it would be a good idea to get one?
Any comments?
I won't advise masturbation. Watching porn has negative consequences, including ED when having sex w/ a real woman.
After some introspection, I'm happy to report that I hv improved significantly in getting and keeping girls/women who are closest to my type since I started this thread in June 2009.
Many friends and kaki can't understand how a lao chee ko pek like me could get very chio SYTs. They are convinced that I must be paying big buck, perhaps 2-20 times what a young, tall and handsome man is paying. Nothing could be further from the truth.
They don't really know what women want in a man. Despite my numerous SBF posts citing various gurus. Do you know THE one most attractive physical attribute in a MAN? Your deep, pleasing, soothing masculine voice!
I'm paying LESS for full BY than I did 9-10 yrs ago, for the same quality of gals, even though the number of my type of girls available in SG has dropped 98% since. The 'damage' is now in the lower range of the going rates. LESS is MORE w/ women. Less money, gifts, etc. There are many psychopathic gold diggers who want more n more. They are worse than lepers. Runaway from them asap.
My subconscious mind n my superconscious mind believes that I'm THE PRIZE. I hv higher social and sexual value than any 'super chio' SYTs/young women around. It may sound arrogant but it's the right mindset n frame.
I hv mentioned my preferred type of girl/woman before. I hv lowered my height requirement as long as it's at least 160 w/o shoes. I don't think I hv ever met a tall and very cute girl in SG. A girl's character is as important as her looks and body n limb proportions. Of course, one man's meat is another man's poison. My 10 may be a 1 to you and your 10 may be a 1 to me.
Some bros also think that I get pretty SYTs because of the law of averages. I make an offer to 10-50 girls to get one positive reply. Total nonsense. I make less than two real offers a yr.
My ONLY limitation is the extremely small number of very cute SYTs I like in SG. How tiny is this number?
In the last 6-7 yrs, I hv caught sight of a total of three 18 yo SYTs I really like in SG. Yes, only three. They are far from perfect but they are THE closest to my type. I sighted them myself n no one introduced them to me. And no help from anyone. I connected w/ them within seconds of seeing them. I hv written abt all 3 before. They all said 'I do' after 2 weeks to two months. Two of them are still w/ me. They are PRC students who don't work in the nite scene.
In other words, I approached 3 cutest SYTs of my type I sighted in SG n they all became my LPs. That is a 100% success rate.
I did meet several other 18 yo SYTs who initially appeared quite attractive, but they were not up to my standards on further inspection. One cute 网红 had short legs. I had also met several chio SYTs who were 16 -17, two of them overseas. But I would never touch a girl who is under 18.
Of course, I have had other LPs during this period who are older than 18 yo.
Many agents, mummies, and friends, both in SG n China, hv tried to intro girls to me. But none are good enough. Yes, not even one. Most of them are plastic n some are hideous looking or have the wrong body n limb proportions.
That is why my offer for bro Don Juan's alleged super chio SYTs has no expiration date.
If any bro here knows a super chio SYT, bring her to meet me. If you like her please keep her. I could be your wingman if you're not too proud to accept my help.
I'm COCKSURE that I'll get her to be YOUR loyal LT lover. Unless she is a gold digger, in that case you should run away from her. Of course, I'll pay for dinner for both of you and for my companion and all other expenses, if any.
I'm just trying to find out what I've been missing in life. Then I hv to work and search harder, much harder. I leave no stone unturned.
One more thing. The 'super chio' SYT must be 18 yo n must look like 18. Zero plastic surgery. As little makeup as possible. Pls show her wrists and legs.
My offer has NO expiration date.
PM me!!
Cheers !!
Bro WB
Congrats to bro WB
Nice forum and will try to read the entire thread once.
Thank you for this incredible enriching thread.
This thread allow me to walk away from my girl when she initiated breakup, and she came running back to me after 1 week after i did not contact her at all. I was able to act cool and chill when she start initiating contact and we have been back tgt ever since.
I still feel needy at time with my girl, but these days i am able to stop myself from showing it. I still have a long way to go.
There are a few points i cant understand though.
4) Make her cry
How do i go about doing it?
6) Refuse sex w/ her sometimes
What is the rationale of refusing sex with her?
Sometimes its even hard to get sex due to our busy schedules
Thank you for this incredible enriching thread.
This thread allow me to walk away from my girl when she initiated breakup, and she came running back to me after 1 week after i did not contact her at all. I was able to act cool and chill when she start initiating contact and we have been back tgt ever since.
I still feel needy at time with my girl, but these days i am able to stop myself from showing it. I still have a long way to go.
There are a few points i cant understand though.
4) Make her cry
How do i go about doing it?
6) Refuse sex w/ her sometimes
What is the rationale of refusing sex with her?
Sometimes its even hard to get sex due to our busy schedules
my take on this "make her cry" - share her sorrows and happiness especially when she sad makes her happy. also when she sick consoles and nurse her back to health. as a soft gal should teared up easily if you do and say right words.
refusing sex - she wants and you play hard to get. then make excuse to go out for running errands etc. if sex hard to come then let her know or feel you hv hundreds of gals fucking you.
I greatly appreciate all the posts. Many have quoted my posts from many months to many years ago. Thank you all!!
It's most regrettable that I'm unable to reply to every one of you as I have been too busy.
I have a confession to make. I'm far from being the MAN I want to be, despite many years of writing about the subject and actively training to becoming such a MAN. Consciously, I know exactly what I must do, but my subconscious mind is more powerful and doesn't want me to change. Progress has been very slow. Fortunately, I have greatly enjoyed the process, the journey. And I have made improvement, steadily, albeit very gradual.
And another good news is that, even though I'm not more than 5-10% of the MAN I aspire to be, in the last 3 years I have had more SYTs/young women than I can handle. The limiting factor is the number of chio girls of my type I'm able to meet...
I can't imagine what a young bro here could achieve when he becomes the MAN.
What really turns on a woman mentally and emotionally? IMHO, it's the fact that you desire her and you are incredibly turned on by her.
Her three needs must be met first:
1) She needs to be respected by his man as a special n unique individual.
2) She needs to hv intimate, emotional communication n bonding w/ her man.
3) She needs an exciting man to make her feel beautiful, sexy, sensual, feminine...
I always tell my LPs: You're so sexy and beautiful. 你的小妹妹很香， 很好吃...
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
No apology in your own thread.
Been the TS, you decide how you like to navigate the forum.
This thread was nicely written and plenty of good points.
"What really turns on a woman mentally and emotionally? IMHO, it's the fact that you desire her and you are incredibly turned on by her.
Her three needs must be met first:
1) She needs to be respected by his man as a special n unique individual.
2) She needs to hv intimate, emotional communication n bonding w/ her man.
3) She needs an exciting man to make her feel beautiful, sexy, sensual, feminine...
I always tell my LPs: You're so sexy and beautiful. 你的小妹妹很香， 很好吃..."
Highlighted was great points and I cannot agree more.
A common question I’ve been getting a lot recently is:
Should I send her a picture of my c*ck or not?
And the answer is… IT DEPENDS.
It depends on WHAT, you ask?
Well, it depends on whether you’ve set the right “man to woman” dynamic in the relationship early on.
Let me explain…
If you meet a girl and you’re acting like her friend… asking her what she’s into. What she does for work. And you pretend to be interested in it.
Then, you go and wrangle your way into hooking up with her under the pretence of doing something related to something she mentioned… without showing any sexual intent at all, and then, seemingly out of nowhere, the night before you meet … you send her a d*ck pic...
...yeah...
That’s errm... Not gonna go down well. Because by being so “friendly” you created a “friends” dynamic, so the LAST thing she’d expect would be a d*ck pic.
However…
Let’s say, in the first few seconds of meeting a girl at a bar you say something like: “Hmmm, yes, you’re perfectly ‘shaggable’ let’s sit over here.” with a big smile on your face and continue walking towards your table as if you didn’t say anything…
(Now, this is a bold approach and you have to have the confidence and personality to match it – but remember I’m saying all this to prove a point.)
AND... assuming you execute it right…
She’ll probably laugh, and not react to what you said. (And perhaps be a little shocked!) But make no mistake: if she hasn’t bailed on you at this point, to put it bluntly... her pu*sy WILL have moistened a little.
What’s more: you’ll have made it clear from the first moment — you are NOT friend material.
Now, if you don’t sleep with her on that first meeting. Sending the girl a d*ck pic later on, or the next day letting her know what she has in store for your next hook up would be, for the right person, PERFECTLY OK.
Talk soon,
Your Guru
P.S. - Obviously sending d*ck pics aren't a requirement for success with women, but I wanted to answer this common question.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Another great forum above.
Answer - N0, will not send a picture of my dick to anyone.
True and agreed no need to do so in order to score with any gal.
Thank you for this incredible enriching thread.
This thread allow me to walk away from my girl when she initiated breakup, and she came running back to me after 1 week after i did not contact her at all. I was able to act cool and chill when she start initiating contact and we have been back tgt ever since.
I still feel needy at time with my girl, but these days i am able to stop myself from showing it. I still have a long way to go.
There are a few points i cant understand though.
4) Make her cry
How do i go about doing it?
6) Refuse sex w/ her sometimes
What is the rationale of refusing sex with her?
Sometimes its even hard to get sex due to our busy schedules
Nice forum and will try to read the entire thread once.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
But nothing to celebrate as I hv not sighted a new chio SYT of my type since I met TY last yr, 16 months ago.
Bro Don Juan must be hiding or camouflaging his "superchio SYTs" just to frustrate me.
I'm patient. My offer to him and to ALL samsters has no expiration date.
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Originally Posted by Whatford
Very logical indeed.
Thanks bro WB for a fantastic thread.
Hoping to learn more too.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by tianshuimaster
Congrats to bro WB too
Read the first few pages and already mesmerised by it.
Thanks and have a great weekend.
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Originally Posted by carmegedd0n
I also agree it is a great read too.
Before reading already enjoying sex, after reading is addicted to sex.
Cheers.
Bros, thanks.
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Originally Posted by harlowboy
WB,
Thank you for this incredible enriching thread.
This thread allow me to walk away from my girl when she initiated breakup, and she came running back to me after 1 week after i did not contact her at all. I was able to act cool and chill when she start initiating contact and we have been back tgt ever since.
I still feel needy at time with my girl, but these days i am able to stop myself from showing it. I still have a long way to go.
There are a few points i cant understand though.
4) Make her cry
How do i go about doing it?
6) Refuse sex w/ her sometimes
What is the rationale of refusing sex with her?
Sometimes its even hard to get sex due to our busy schedules
Bro, tks.
The best way to get a girl/woman back is NOT wanting to get her back. Just walk away n mean it because it's a big loss for her n a big gain for you.
Don't make a girl cry intentionally. Behave like a MAN. Point out her flaws, reprimand her when she makes mistakes, say NO whenever it's the right thing to do...speak your mind, be Mode One. She will cry if she cares abt you.
The other way to make her cry is to be very romantic and very kind.
Refusing sex is to show her that you like/love her but you don't need her. If you hv been giving her great sexual pleasure, she won't be able to tahan.
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Originally Posted by SBMEDSUP
my take on this "make her cry" - share her sorrows and happiness especially when she sad makes her happy. also when she sick consoles and nurse her back to health. as a soft gal should teared up easily if you do and say right words.
refusing sex - she wants and you play hard to get. then make excuse to go out for running errands etc. if sex hard to come then let her know or feel you hv hundreds of gals fucking you.
make it sound like her loss n you are the prize.
Bro, tks.
Well said.
Yes, if you're not a prize to your girl, the relationship will not last.
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Originally Posted by masterschamp
Bro WB
No apology in your own thread.
Been the TS, you decide how you like to navigate the forum.
This thread was nicely written and plenty of good points.
"What really turns on a woman mentally and emotionally? IMHO, it's the fact that you desire her and you are incredibly turned on by her.
Her three needs must be met first:
1) She needs to be respected by his man as a special n unique individual.
2) She needs to hv intimate, emotional communication n bonding w/ her man.
3) She needs an exciting man to make her feel beautiful, sexy, sensual, feminine...
I always tell my LPs: You're so sexy and beautiful. 你的小妹妹很香， 很好吃..."
Highlighted was great points and I cannot agree more.
Thanks and cheers.
Bro, tks for reposting what I hv wrtten quite a long time ago.
"What really turns on a woman mentally and emotionally? IMHO, it's the fact that you desire her and you are incredibly turned on by her."
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Originally Posted by masterschamp
Bro WB
Another great forum above.
Answer - N0, will not send a picture of my dick to anyone.
True and agreed no need to do so in order to score with any gal.
Thanks and cheers.
You're right!
I hv done video chatting w/ a few of my beloved LPs during which I showed my erect dick. To tell them that I was strongly aroused by their good looks and sexy body/limbs.
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Originally Posted by Jnut
Fully agreed with your points bro.
Thanks bro WB for this great thread, keep it up.
Tks, bro.
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Originally Posted by NuclearLit
LMAO on this - 你的小妹妹很香， 很好吃...
Also thanks bro WB for sharing so much.
Hahaha.
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Originally Posted by rccb
Agreed it is another great forum by bro WB.
Why send dick pic to her? Does she send pussy pic?
Have a nice day.
Very few girls hv sent me boob and pussy pics.
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Originally Posted by wuhai
#2 also play a part la
Bro. I agree.
Thanks and cheers to all samsters!
Bro WB
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