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Old 16-07-2022, 11:50 PM
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

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ahahaha great reminder
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Old 16-07-2022, 11:52 PM
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

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Pearlnjewel bro, I've actually done exactly that, just came back on Monday.

I told myself the same thing as you did. I also thought, I've never been to her homeland before, and since travel restrictions have loosened, why not take this opportunity to go on a holiday after being stuck at home for so long? Plus having familiar (albeit paid) companionship will be better than dragging my not-street-smart ass about on my own in a foreign land.

Now that I'm back, let's just say I severely overestimated my reasoning and resolve about not getting (too) attached. Because when I'm dead honest with myself, my main reason for going was because I really wanted to see her, spend time with her and know her more as an actual person. In other words, the attachment was already present and strong within me. Or as other Samsters put it, I KC-ed myself.

This is just my experience, may be different for you. You just got to be really honest with yourself about exactly why and how much you want to see her and enjoy time together, that you want to go over and find her when there are so many other FLs available. I believe acknowledging what you really feel and what your real intentions are will help no matter the outcome.

We all know and read enough about why we shouldn't get involved with FLs beyond the pump-n'-go. But alas, we are still human, flesh-and-blood beings that are wired for connection, relationship and intimacy, with yearnings and desires. Hope this helps somewhat, though no judgement here if you do end up going.

Yeah man i guess you spot on and its great you shared your experience. Sian sia tio KCed
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Old 16-07-2022, 11:53 PM
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

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If you don’t have a very clear idea of what you want to achieve by going to see her again, then don’t.
yeah man havent taken action because of the super ex air ticket
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Old 16-07-2022, 11:56 PM
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

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If you're meeting her just for physical intimacy and nothing else that is perfectly fine. Anything more and its a slippery slope from there.

What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas. Don't blur the lines, the only happy ending lasts for only 5 seconds.
I see...physical intimacy plenty of FLs in sg and bolehland to get. But siao liao the fact i want to meet her probably more than physical
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Old 16-07-2022, 11:57 PM
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How are you going to make her a PR? Fake marriage?
PR must have singapore baby liao cant be fake marriage
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Old 17-07-2022, 05:35 PM
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

Which country the FL from? I do have the feeling of visiting her too. But their side isnt open for tourism sadly
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Which country the FL from? I do have the feeling of visiting her too. But their side isnt open for tourism sadly
thailand open !
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I have been telling people not to get involved with FLs but recently i somehow has been in contact with a FL who went back to homeland.

And i'm considering going to visit her cos i told her i want to see her again.

I told myself that we are not going to be a couple or getting marry that sort because she was a FL. I'm just going to visit her cos i want to see her again and enjoy some time together.

Hopefully i wont sink in too deep to make her a permanent resident in Singapore.
I have done that twice 😁

I stayed there for many months each time.

I think not worth tbh. Important to think with big head and think of your future for your own sake. Like are you rich enough to bring her to SG? Is she financially independent?

I understand it is fun but be careful of your wallet and your heart man. Take care of yourself! Prioritise yourself!
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I have done that twice 😁

I stayed there for many months each time.

I think not worth tbh. Important to think with big head and think of your future for your own sake. Like are you rich enough to bring her to SG? Is she financially independent?

I understand it is fun but be careful of your wallet and your heart man. Take care of yourself! Prioritise yourself!
yup so this keep in contact thing ah, better with no emotion involved. got emotion involved better stop contact or things get worse. as much as some people say got happy stories , not wrong ah but statistically how many kanna conned. unless u patient and strong enough to find out lor.
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

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ah true sian sia i think you spot on
sex can develop attachment if there is initial feelings. that's when it goes up hill and then down hill.

so best is fling with FL that you not feeling anything towards.
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While true, a fling just for sex is totally different feeling from one with feelings.

We are all humans, whether men or women, customers or FLs. Developing feelings is normal. It depends on whether we want to act on the feelings or not.



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sex can develop attachment if there is initial feelings. that's when it goes up hill and then down hill.

so best is fling with FL that you not feeling anything towards.
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Old 26-07-2022, 04:10 PM
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

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While true, a fling just for sex is totally different feeling from one with feelings.

We are all humans, whether men or women, customers or FLs. Developing feelings is normal. It depends on whether we want to act on the feelings or not.
yes, that's when our self control comes in.
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

if can FWB with FL , hoh seh ! even if you have to pay, the GFE lvl sibei high
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

Banged a FL from motherland twice when she was here. Got her personal wechat and we became online friends. Went to 🇰🇷 last year to see her as she was working as a farmer. No sex but chit chat over dinner. FLs can be friends too, if you can control your emotions.
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Re: Visiting ex FL in her homeland

Simple question - if you go to visit the FL back in her home question, do you still pay her for the time she spent with you although you have already paid for the hotel, food, drinks and entertainment?
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