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Old 31-10-2021, 01:37 AM
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Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

No matter how hard I try, simply cannot find a GF. Feeling quite defeated and depressed. So now I just pay for sex or look for sugar babe when I need company.

Dun have to deal with rejections, uncertainties and dramas. Just pay and get what I want. Is it considered loser?
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Old 31-10-2021, 09:03 AM
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No matter how hard I try, simply cannot find a GF. Feeling quite defeated and depressed. So now I just pay for sex or look for sugar babe when I need company.

Dun have to deal with rejections, uncertainties and dramas. Just pay and get what I want. Is it considered loser?
Don't think so much as least nobody control you. U want to change gal anytime can change.
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Old 31-10-2021, 10:02 AM
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

You are trying too hard chasing the wrong things.

When you start loving and being confident in yourself, you will start wondering why every woman you meet is so interested in you.

You need to believe that you can and do want to make positive changes.
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Old 31-10-2021, 10:20 AM
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

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You are trying too hard chasing the wrong things.

When you start loving and being confident in yourself, you will start wondering why every woman you meet is so interested in you.

You need to believe that you can and do want to make positive changes.

Why is getting a girlfriend chasing the wrong thing? Not natural for guys to want partner and intimacy? You mean trying too hard is bad?

What do you mean loving and confident in yourself every women is so interested in you? Examples?
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Old 31-10-2021, 10:47 AM
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No matter how hard I try, simply cannot find a GF. Feeling quite defeated and depressed. So now I just pay for sex or look for sugar babe when I need company.

Dun have to deal with rejections, uncertainties and dramas. Just pay and get what I want. Is it considered loser?
You are not the only guy facing this problem leh. Loser, you got a lot of losers cliques on same boat with you. You see the guys on the street most likely around 60 percent of them also same trouble as you but we never say only.

You can control how girls react to you meh? No right? But you can put the focus back on yourself. Accept the fact that you cannot find a gf now and you start being at peace with yourself. Cos you not the top 20 percent guys girls are seeking attention from. Accept that fact

Mind sharing how much you spend on sugar babe? Is it the proper no hanky panky or sibei ex 2k per month sex involved?

Do you crave sex with other girls if you have a girlfriend? If thats the case then better dont get girlfriend, find one you can emotionally click with and attracted to. I realise the girls had real feelings before are not those girls super pretty 8 9 10 kind its the normal uni girls plain looking maybe breast not big and face a lot of pimple but physically okay looking and wear plain plain. Those zhabor you wont even consider in the first place then few days later boom sparks fly
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Old 31-10-2021, 03:33 PM
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

What u mean by quite defeated? And no need to deal with rejections? These emotions are highly stirred by lack of doing anything successful in your life. And no need to ask questions like considered a loser? It is meaningless and dun bother to think too much.

This is life, sometimes u win, sometimes u lose. If u win, no need to be arrogant. If u lose, no need to be dejected. Others can give up on you, however u must never give up on yourself.
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

I also go siamdiu and ktv paid money for companionship and sex.

My friends also question me why.

Can feel they look down on me.

But it’s not easy finding girlfriend leh. Especially at my age.
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Old 01-11-2021, 06:12 PM
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I also go siamdiu and ktv paid money for companionship and sex.

My friends also question me why.

Can feel they look down on me.

But it’s not easy finding girlfriend leh. Especially at my age.
You need a different set of friends who can understand your difficulties

Just have as much paid sex as you want lol, 人在江湖生不由己. Its not like you can get sex from normal girl at this point of time so dont bash yourself up. Self love important

Just dont spoil market by spending 150 on 1 shot with prc and viet bus who fucking jack up the price
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Old 01-11-2021, 07:04 PM
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Why so? You have the ability to pay and get to choose who and what you want exactly minus the chasing and what nots. You know exactly what you want and not interested to deal with those small nonsense to get to action.
So I don't see it as a bad thing. .
Better than some cheapo men who can pay but mislead the ladies into falling for them and then abandon them with hearts broken?
Come on..
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Old 01-11-2021, 09:20 PM
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

Need a dating coach. Pay for one. Get him to change your perspectives.
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

Thanks for all the replies. I am close to 40 now, maybe no energy and the emotional resilience to go through all the hassle and drama of chasing gals like the way I did when I was in my 20s/30s. Hence opt for the most easy way out- pay for sex and companionship

Also, I feel that online dating is toxic for men these days. Every gal out there has so many simps/white knights chasing that their expectations are so high now. And they can drop you anytime cos there's always a better guy appearing to woo them.

My experience generally is those gals below 30, they usually won't even reply at all. Even for those 30-35, they are eager to get attached, but still quite stuck up. Always reply one-word, show minimal interest and expect the guy to do all the chasing. The only responsive ones are those above 35, overweight or single mom/divorcee with a lot of baggages

A number of my single frens share the same experience and hence given up on dating, and just to turn to paid sex & companionship like me
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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

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Thanks for all the replies. I am close to 40 now, maybe no energy and the emotional resilience to go through all the hassle and drama of chasing gals like the way I did when I was in my 20s/30s. Hence opt for the most easy way out- pay for sex and companionship

Also, I feel that online dating is toxic for men these days. Every gal out there has so many simps/white knights chasing that their expectations are so high now. And they can drop you anytime cos there's always a better guy appearing to woo them.

My experience generally is those gals below 30, they usually won't even reply at all. Even for those 30-35, they are eager to get attached, but still quite stuck up. Always reply one-word, show minimal interest and expect the guy to do all the chasing. The only responsive ones are those above 35, overweight or single mom/divorcee with a lot of baggages

A number of my single frens share the same experience and hence given up on dating, and just to turn to paid sex & companionship like me
It could be the hottest psycho bitches are more easily available. I am super way past you. At this age, I feel my 40 , I was a kid. In fact, I still am and so i remain stupid.

The models/instagram ...or whoever need resources ...money whatever...they are lazy and psycho ...okay i am just ranting away... but anyway i have seen them, with them and involved with them. Messed myself up and well...this girl i got involved keeps writing to me but anyway she messed me up

here is an idea, you could rent a nice apt, really cheap but in a nice place in a beautiful place in europe, beach etc ... and yup they would not mind crashing in your place. And they can be fucking horny ...

and I know some men do it in Singapore (locals or caucasians) apt in Sg I mean ... anyway cute and very young ang mo girls, they age fast though i must say one bosomy Instgram girl (should be later 20s and not fresh out of 20s), i met her in moscow, she looks incredible, as good or better than her instagram . Local are so ugly...

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Re: Am I a loser if I have to pay for sex/pay for companionship?

not really, at times, a no strings attached business transaction is the best thing you can have.

maybe you're feeling "lonely" at times, however if you are so inclined, do remember that when you go home, there is no obligation or responsibility, which is not a bad thing at all.
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A number of my single frens share the same experience and hence given up on dating, and just to turn to paid sex & companionship like me
Yes, agreed with that can also go oversea to explore oversea gal. There are many type these. Some talk money with you, some don't talk money. These type will be good too.
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Thanks for all the replies. I am close to 40 now, maybe no energy and the emotional resilience to go through all the hassle and drama of chasing gals like the way I did when I was in my 20s/30s. Hence opt for the most easy way out- pay for sex and companionship

Also, I feel that online dating is toxic for men these days. Every gal out there has so many simps/white knights chasing that their expectations are so high now. And they can drop you anytime cos there's always a better guy appearing to woo them.

My experience generally is those gals below 30, they usually won't even reply at all. Even for those 30-35, they are eager to get attached, but still quite stuck up. Always reply one-word, show minimal interest and expect the guy to do all the chasing. The only responsive ones are those above 35, overweight or single mom/divorcee with a lot of baggages

A number of my single frens share the same experience and hence given up on dating, and just to turn to paid sex & companionship like me

I would wish you good luck but luck is not what you need.
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