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Ts learn to protect yourself in your next fucking
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Your requirement too high, disqualify lot of guys here hehe
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2. As the mother of the baby, she can force a paternity test at any point in time and you will become liable for the child's upkeep. This is your obligation under the law (she may not know this already, but I figured you should because one day she will somehow know the truth). If I were you, I will be upfront with her and tell her what your liabilities are. I do not know of any way for you to be released of your liability, even if she gives you a written assurance she can go back and claim child maintenance from you later on, so long that you are really the father of the baby. 3. Since you are not married, ask her what she really sees in the future for the two of you. A baby is not a trifling matter, it will change her life as it will change yours. My ex PRC ML was pregnant with my baby and she aborted without telling me. I still burn incense for the unborn aborted foetus every hungry ghost festival, and on the anniversary of the abortion. I hope she understands the gravity of the situation and you can both come to an agreement on the next steps. She may need to return to China for an abortion, and if she is in time for the RU386 treatment she will need to rest and abstain from sex for at least 3 months after the procedure. |
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Don't hijack other people thread liao. Go to my thread.
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1. I can confirm that she is WP holder. Does point 2 and WC applies if she is WP holder? I am not so sure of her next body check-up date for extension of WP. 2. We have calculated her cycle as well as the date of deed, not sure if everything adds up but she had only did one test and its positive. She will test again. 3. At the moment, she decided to give birth back in China for now. Might leave the baby for her mom to care. Once again, I am glad that I am not facing this alone. Thanks guys. |
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https://sso.agc.gov.sg/Act/WC1961?ProvIds=P1VIII-. Her employer will get a letter when the time is due for her 6 monthly check up. That said it is obvious that she should leave Singapore before her pregnancy bump becomes visible. Please discuss again with her what she sees your role to be in the future. A child is no trifling matter. If she really really wishes to have the child, then please educate her on the benefits of having dual citizenship (especially if the child is a girl) Last edited by Penguin23; 04-11-2021 at 01:42 PM. Reason: Edited for clarity, spelling and grammar |
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For the umpteenth time: Condoms are there for a reason.
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She tells me she would do a test again. I feel emotionally drained right now. Shouldn't have gotten myself tangled up with all this in the first place. My mind is all about WC right now. If she went back to China and give birth where the child gets PRC passport, does WC law in Singapore activates? |
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She is being screwed. You want to have part in it when you dont even know what she said its true? Oh Sinkies, oh Sinkies
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1. There is always a small chance of a false positive for a home pregnancy kit. The only 100% test for pregnancy needs to be done in a lab, so the doctor will need to send in her urine sample. This is obviously not ideal, because if she does this in Singapore and the test is positive the doctor has an obligation to report the results to MOM and that will get her WP cancelled almost immediately. 2. Women's Charter can be activated anytime by the mother, she can allege that the child is yours and ask for maintenance years down the road. Your only defense is a negative paternity match. I used this private paternity kit match service before, it is fairly affordable and all you need is a cheek swab from the child and from you, to disprove paternity. https://www.genetrack.sg/dna-tests Obviously a pre-natal paternity test via amniocentesis is highly invasive and very unpleasant. I am not sure if the ML will ever agree to have a 22-gauge 15cm needle poked right into her pregnant belly. See my earlier link on WC rights of illegitimate children. I am afraid your obligations are absolute, if it is proven that the child is indeed yours. Last edited by Penguin23; 08-11-2021 at 11:58 AM. Reason: Edited for clarity, spelling and grammar |
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If there’s no baby I’d advise you to also doubly make sure so you do not create an additional larger regret upon a smaller one. Aside from that it’s not for us to comment on how u prefer your fuck, prefer to live life and prefer to enjoy yourself. Penguin and I are jumping in largely because we know the impact of children and you owe it to your children to be the best for them regardless of what issues life throws at you in all it’s naked, raw, powerful glory. |
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Thank you both of you for all the help.
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If not, please go and get a pack of 12 and if she confirms she's not pregnant, please also go anal with her from now onwards. |
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