Meeting Online Vietnamese

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

S$10k to open a coffee shop...not even enough for rental deposits and renovations...think TS really hv no idea how much money needed to do biz in hcm or Vietnam....

recently 3 gals went into partnership to start a cafe at D8 and closed within 6 months...total money burn S$60k...

Depend on the size and type of cafe bah.
Cause , I been to her shop liao, it really simple, sell.only drinks only. Not selling any foods, second floor is where the staff sleeps.
So is consider as shop house, first floor sell coffee, second floor is where they sleep.

First floor, the size only enough for 6 table, kind of similar to primary/secondary those table, but about 3/4 of the size.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I read all the pages and found out TS didn’t managed to up her...what a waste of S$1000...

Think he dun understand what the girl wanted...

The Girl want someone that can take care of her family. She trying to be like those modern Viet, where people live in Good Apartment, she want family to live in good places, she dont want her future generation be like her, stuck living at run down place, and cannot do much.

She recently just do a breast surgery(plastic surgery)

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

A marriage with free 1 kid is no no...frankly I dun think TS understand Vietnam culture...

it will be whirlwind but TS said 5 yrs rs...so trust me Vietnam girls cannot last so Long...unless there is constant money supply to feed her and entire family...

TS pls read the thread Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner thread to learn about Vietnam culture and fly to Vietnam frequently to find out...

Vietnam culture, it all about taking care family, want to be rich. It the same as wherever we go, ASIAN have SIMILAR CULTURE.
Singaporean also want take care of family, also want rich or rather, Singaporean tend to prefer lazy work, sit down office, just type and collect money, dont even want to do those laborius work or do things that they feel 'no face value' or not up to their 'image'....
come on lah, we all are the same as any of.our ASIAN, the.only difference is the CURRENCY VALUE

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

The Girl want someone that can take care of her family. She trying to be like those modern Viet, where people live in Good Apartment, she want family to live in good places, she dont want her future generation be like her, stuck living at run down place, and cannot do much.

She recently just do a breast surgery(plastic surgery)

All viet girl had to take care of her family...including mother, father, children, bros, sis...etc...all that is part of Viet culture...

Do she tell you how much is the breast enhancement cost...:

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Vietnam culture, it all about taking care family, want to be rich. It the same as wherever we go, ASIAN have SIMILAR CULTURE.
Singaporean also want take care of family, also want rich or rather, Singaporean tend to prefer lazy work, sit down office, just type and collect money, dont even want to do those laborius work or do things that they feel 'no face value' or not up to their 'image'....
come on lah, we all are the same as any of.our ASIAN, the.only difference is the CURRENCY VALUE

Salah lah...you still dun understand viet culture...son dun need to take care of family instead of money to spend...

[TadaoKumagai]

Due to TikTok and some similar platform, now a lot modern people just want to work at home, broadcasting, online auction or similar, all just want the 'easy way out'. All want to get sponsor for their video content that can garner enough viewship interetlsts, making viral content.
Some even go do discreet escort arrangement under table, or even via SWAG , if not.just sell their used bra/panty for people with such fetishes.....
In Singapore, Woman have easier way of earning compare to Man.... they have so many easier solution.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

All viet girl had to take care of her family...including mother, father, children, bros, sis...etc...all that is part of Viet culture...

Do she tell you how much is the breast enhancement cost...:

Salah lah...you still dun understand viet culture...son dun need to take care of family instead of money to spend...

The male I know no.need, just play around only... Their overall standard is worse than us(Singaporean males) , however I find Vietnamese female, overall standard is way better than Singapore Lady... (at least you know they want 'achievable lifestyle' conpare to Singapore)

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Salah lah...you still dun understand viet culture...son dun need to take care of family instead of money to spend...

I went there 3 time and It really to my liking, the lifestyle there, Jay walking, bike can go direction, change any direction, u-turn if go wrong, etc....

Jay walking is my style, I dont like wait for 'Zebra Crossing'.
Their food also suit my taste.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

The male I know no.need, just play around only... Their overall standard is worse than us(Singaporean males) , however I find Vietnamese female, overall standard is way better than Singapore Lady... (at least you know they want 'achievable lifestyle' conpare to Singapore)

Since you do not give her money then she have plenty of bfs who will bao her to give her monthly allowances...

Her bro will need not to work too much becos bro happily spending her hard earned money...given by mother...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

I went there 3 time and It really to my liking, the lifestyle there, Jay walking, bike can go direction, change any direction, u-turn if go wrong, etc....

Jay walking is my style, I dont like wait for 'Zebra Crossing'.
Their food also suit my taste.

Try to go once without telling her in advance and then head to her house...may find out some interesting facts ...maybe you kena surprises...

Fly there more often and try to find more girls...learn their culture...most important learn tieng viet...

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Since you do not give her money then she have plenty of bfs who will bao her to give her monthly allowances...

Her bro will need not to work too much becos bro happily spending her hard earned money...given by mother...

I totally aware of that, so what?
To me, it totally normal lor.
Please lah, Singapore also more or less the same...
Don't come and tell me, your parent will not give you money, or if you need money or if you in trouble, dont tell me you parents will not give you money, will not help you, your family, your siblings, will also help you with their money...
Come on lah, it totally the same thing no matter where we go leh....

I working as Waiter, not enough I also just ask money from my family de lor... but not much la, within my salary can pay back de... I even borrow from my cousin, but payback on salary day.... so I am still no debt, cause borrow liao, pay day pay back liao, neutralise.

Some more, if have baby, dont care which country, confirm need more expenses. If I have baby in the future, I also confirm will ask family to help for baby expenses if I cannot handle it myself.

I don't see any wrong in doing this.

So I find it totally normal for Vietnam people helping their family, taking care of their family needs. It totally normal to me.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Try to go once without telling her in advance and then head to her house...may find out some interesting facts ...maybe you kena surprises...

Fly there more often and try to find more girls...learn their culture...most important learn tieng viet...

Not interesting in learning Tieng Viet, Google translation all the way via apps can liao.... Even future marry liao... The most just marry KTV or the Girl who had experiences with foreigner, at least they know basic English/Chinese, so there will not be much issues with understanding, the most just use translation for things cannot explain lor.

Please lah, it basic manner and respect leh.... Your friend or Girlfriend or someone you barely know, one day just pop up inside your house and visit, how you feel sia?
Even if you find it okay, but you will still have the "WTF, why never tell me kind of feeling" , some even more extreme de lor.

Just like me and you lor, I don't know you much, or let say we meet only 1-2 time, then for no reason, I just appear in your house(if you give me your address), how you feel bro?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

I totally aware of that, so what?
To me, it totally normal lor.
Please lah, Singapore also more or less the same...
Don't come and tell me, your parent will not give you money, or if you need money or if you in trouble, dont tell me you parents will not give you money, will not help you, your family, your siblings, will also help you with their money...
Come on lah, it totally the same thing no matter where we go leh....

I working as Waiter, not enough I also just ask money from my family de lor... but not much la, within my salary can pay back de... I even borrow from my cousin, but payback on salary day.... so I am still no debt, cause borrow liao, pay day pay back liao, neutralise.

Some more, if have baby, dont care which country, confirm need more expenses. If I have baby in the future, I also confirm will ask family to help for baby expenses if I cannot handle it myself.

I don't see any wrong in doing this.

So I find it totally normal for Vietnam people helping their family, taking care of their family needs. It totally normal to me.

I find it you are naive...you at least working as waiter...

I am telling you sons in Vietnam dun have to work...still have nice brand new motorbike to ride, money to spend...and worst get into trouble when accidents...

when sons getting married...sister(s) pay for the total bill...if not enough money then mother borrow from loan sharks and daugther(s) had to pay in future...

so you think is perfectly normal ha...

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Not interesting in learning Tieng Viet, Google translation all the way via apps can liao.... Even future marry liao... The most just marry KTV or the Girl who had experiences with foreigner, at least they know basic English/Chinese, so there will not be much issues with understanding, the most just use translation for things cannot explain lor.

met a few similar hard headed guy like you in the past...anyway it will be similar terrible messy affairs in the end...

will rest my case...

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I find it you are naive...you at least working as waiter...

I am telling you sons in Vietnam dun have to work...still have nice brand new motorbike to ride, money to spend...and worst get into trouble when accidents...

when sons getting married...sister(s) pay for the total bill...if not enough money then mother borrow from loan sharks and daugther(s) had to pay in future...

so you think is perfectly normal ha...



met a few similar hard headed guy like you in the past...anyway it will be similar terrible messy affairs in the end...

will rest my case...

Tolong la, Vietnam man also got work. Dont bullshit with me they never work, just wait family give them money.
What those grab driver that you see, or those peddler or even other industry male worker/staff that you see.
Come on, use your common sense leh, if you dont even have basic Job, even in Vietnam, also cannot find partner de lor.
I think.you too bias, maybe you have bad experience.in there?
I dont.know.
But VIETNAM MAN HAVE JOB, that is CONFIRM. But lazy.or.not, is.another issues lah.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I am telling you sons in Vietnam dun have to work...still have nice brand new motorbike to ride, money to spend...and worst get into trouble when accidents...

will rest my case...

You talk machiam.all Vietnam guy is jobless and do nothing, you open your eye, go vietnam see yourself first... WORK CONFIRM WORK, enough or not another issues... CONFIRM NOT ENOUGH

[lt0l0tl]

Woohoo... just treat TS telling a friction story and enjoy ... the drama ...