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#256
24-07-2009, 12:37 AM
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 Anyway, I think that on grand scheme of things, you are on a higher plane than me. Your 3 wives make money for you? Literally or figuratively? (Wanted to hear an elaboration but have to leave for my conf call!). DYBJ, you are like a lion, the king of the plains where a pride of lioness do the hunting for you. (You must have given them some 'psychic' reward such as multiple sexual orgasms!). An enviable position indeed. For me, I have to generate income in order to feed them ladies. Unlike you, I am not sure how many of them will stay with me once I don't possess the wherewithal and ability to materially support them! I am sure one will but until that happens, it is only guesswork - and I will make sure that such a situation will not happen. So for that alone, you are indeed the master on the higher plane. And I have to learn from you! (By the way, the first wife is now my "ex". We are divorced. Although not Paul Macartney 'terok' - it still cost me hell of a lot. Including one house. I now live with my parents (in addition to my "alternative accomodation" at my Love Nest - from where I am typing this post). Cheers bro!
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#257
24-07-2009, 12:43 AM
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I hate forums...
Sigh, what you meant may not always be perceived as what you meant....nope, no sarcasm here...not my style...if you've read my posts....... I'm a very direct person by virtue and dun wear masks to show others something I'm not, I'm just plain simple me. I was only quoting from what you said. FYI, my wives run my business, all have their portfolios....thus the reason why they make money for me...and thus, for themselves....... I'm not on any plane bro, I'm just a legally unemployed noob who does nottin but wastes his life, what's left of it, away at KTVs that's all.
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的，就是你的。 不是你的，不要抢！ 人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
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#258
24-07-2009, 11:11 AM
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It was indeed my pleasure to hv a chance to meet u in the flesh. I was so thrilled n honoured to be sitting btw a MISTRESS GURU n A BAO KING!!! I believe I must hv done some benevolent n altruistic deeds in my past lives!! Unfortunately, ur one-hr appearance was too brief. I would love to meet u soon in the near future. Cheers! Quote:
Amazing! You're the one n only...a true lion among men. You r also munificient...I'm speechless. Even if I had more money, I could never be as generous.  Cheers! Quote:
I guess we just hv to accept the fact that our dear bro DYBJ has no peers in this arena. Fortunately, there r plenty of chio gals for everyone, hahaha. BTW, he literally just lifted a little finger n got me a chio 18 yo singer to BY!! And she is my type of meat...D Good day!!
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#259
24-07-2009, 12:01 PM
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I admire ur candor. But I know how productive u are, n in so many fields...  Sadly, I hv also been legally unemployed for quite long time...but I love the new life as I'm not chained to a treadmill n now I can take time to smell the roses...  Good day!!
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#260
24-07-2009, 02:17 PM
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Bro WarBird, pls dun say that.
I'm just a simple nobody............. I shall leave this thread and not disturb anymore...... Cheers
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的，就是你的。 不是你的，不要抢！ 人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
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#261
24-07-2009, 05:36 PM
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Bro Justime, Warbird and DYBJ,
So humble the three of you, make me so paiseh...  Thanks for sharing your experiences around KTV BY scene.
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#262
24-07-2009, 07:58 PM
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Just want to use this opp to say a big thank you to bro justime. He and I a two hour sharing session today whereby he help me sort out my life.
I had begged him to meet me becos my life very shucky. Career wise not going too well. Scared anytime retrenched becos company not doing too well. My lady 'crush' at IP building after showing some interest go back to shell, and now bo chap me again. Family got stress becos my bros & sis quarrel over how much each must contribute to mom hospitalisation. I feel lonely all the time as i got few friend. No need to talk about mistress, date also bo. My only companion is drink and cigs. I feel like depression & complete loser with no $, no gal, and maybe no job. (tings got so 'cham' that even when i post in sammyboy and put up nice videos & pics kena zap for nothing.) super loser man! anyway, Bro Jus and me sat down & literally come up with my Life Plan. Bro Jus suggest I am to start a blog so tat i can see how far i have come after i applied his principles. he promised tat he will coach me periodically as he may not have the time. anyway i am writing all these down to tell bros here that bro jus is very sincere guy. in all my 33 yrs of life i have never met anyone like him. complete strangers & he help me a lot. after our session, i feel super motivated inside. i now know wat to do work wise & relationship (including relationship with myself). I also want to tell bro jus thank you for lending me $480. he say he give me, but I promise to myself to pay him all back (plus interest plus blanjar him a session at pub). i also make a commitment will not drink so much and use this drinking $ to pay him back asap when my personal situ better. (Bro Jus, Hoong ki cannot quit just like that leh - one packet a day tops okay?) and to make this relevant here, i want to just tell everybody here tat the relationship w self most important. & tat when things are in the most 倒楣 stage, i cannot retreat in shell & 'wallow in self pity'. bro jus will intro someone soon to meet me just to build my gal interaction skill and bring up my self confident. 非常,非常感謝 to you bro justime ........
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#263
24-07-2009, 11:21 PM
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The fact that you set up your wives to run your businesses (and making money for themselves in the process) is very noble. It is a perfect expression of symbiotic relationship. I know exactly what you are talking about, I set up shop for my Thai mistress, Paeng. From an employee, she is now a business owner. (She is supposed to share the proceeds of the profit to me but I didn't insist!) BTW, I sent you a special PM and I sincerely hope that you will do me the honours by accepting the proposal there! (No ... nothing risque at all. I assure all that I am still a 100% commited heterosexual!)Quote:
BTW, what is the present status of the 18 yr old singer? accepted your offer? or should I say has she consumated the offer?
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"Had we but world enough, and time, This coyness, Lady, were no crime. We would sit down and think which way To walk and pass our long love’s day."
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#264
24-07-2009, 11:28 PM
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(tings got so 'cham' that even when i post in sammyboy and put up nice videos & pics kena zap for nothing.) super loser man!
Bro Anson Upz you lah! Hope things become much better from now on.  Always believe that there is always some benefit behind each scene in the drama of our life. Up to you to understand and learn from it and carry on. Good luck with your renewed determination and effort! 
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#265
24-07-2009, 11:34 PM
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I am a non smoker, so perhaps I can not understand the physical craving and provide a proper cessation strategies. Maybe bro who managed to successfully quit the habit can advise bro anson. Only thing I know is that a packet of cigs costs about $11.60. And if you quit cold turkey, its $340 per month 'savings' which might come in handy for you. Don't worry too much about the money I passed you. Treat it like I open one bottle in TAM and invite you to party. (Rest assure, I shall not be apply the rough strong arm tactic of spraying "O$P$" on your doorstep!) Most important of all is for you to take care of your situation first. And I have the utmost confidence in you that you can and will do so. Cheers!
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"Had we but world enough, and time, This coyness, Lady, were no crime. We would sit down and think which way To walk and pass our long love’s day."
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#266
25-07-2009, 12:04 AM
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tk u also for yur points. just checking only lah, but points no yet 'jib' in rep bank leh.... thot tat counts anyway bro.Quote:
i touch by your kindness .... good nite!
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#267
25-07-2009, 02:02 AM
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Y I always get singers instead of KTV, HC, TN, StreetWalkers or even outright hookers????
Simple. This is a game. Pure mental and physical domination. Though my methods do require $$$, its the best safe bet. As most bros have already alerted me to this thread in the very beginning, I have chosen to be silent and not comment, cos I have been following this thread in the very beginning and I must say, its for myself only, that I will not practise what is preached here, not that its not applicable, but the risks, i guess is too high. Why do i say that???? I will elaborate below as I've had too much Chinese Tea wif Bro WarBird earlier at a HFJ wif his new BY toy and so, looks like another long nite for me. Remember, this is bot meat! Not love......... If you have a crush or sense that you're getting too emotionally attached to someone, RUN! Remember the number of pussies coming through our Int'l Airport every other day. As mentioned by TS, be in control, be the Alpha in the game. You dictate, she submits...no compromise watsoever!!!!!!! The minute you want her more than she wants you, you're as good as FUCKED! She just became the Alpha! So if you approached the topic wif her once, and she says no or outright dilly dally tactic, just say bye and walk off. All these must be done in the face, never on the phone or sms....her expressions speaks more than her words....always look for little movements or changes in facial expression...... Dangers of getting Non Singers When you have someone who has to run tables, suck man's dicks for a living, you can never control her activities. She's got one million and one golden opportunities to give excuses for her disappearance etc etc, thus, did you really BAO her? To me NO! If you Bao someone, she's your back and call....nottin more nottin less You just rented a hole that you preferred, that's all. Most importantly, its a personal hole. Want anything more, you're in for the ride of your life. Why Singers?????? They have to report to work 7days a week and only 1 day off the entire month. So, during working hours, she's literally in prison cos she cant disappear. Next, be smart, know some of the staff there & always tip them generously, cos money in such places will go a long way. Also, hang flowers for those that you notice that have weak flower ratings, dun seek sex from them, seek their EYES and EARS! Do the above, and which ever customer comes, hangs how much, what your singer is doin etc etc, you'll always be informed. For the staff, tell them outright that you'll take care of them and in return, they'll be your spies....this is also very important. Know where the singer stays, cos if there's another singer staying in close proximity, she'll be your best friend. Never support their room mate, cos they'll most definitely be in cahoots together as proven to Bro WarBird tonight hehehehe Also, support someone who your singer hates on stage, cos this person will have no reservation watsoever to betray the singer you BAO...very political but very water tight. Yes, remember, they're here for the SGD not lovy dovy. A non singer has so much space to maneuver, thus its very diff to have outright domination on here, unless you BAO her a very generous amount and she just stays and home and spreads her legs for you everyday.......but what happen when you're working, or sleeping???? That's the blind spot! For a singer, if you BAO her, you will hang generously, thus, news will spread soon and the big players will usually be informed who's BAOed and Who's not. Only new or small palyers will not know such privileged intel. It wont take long before the singer herself knows that she's being watched, thus this will cos her to have very little space to maneuver...this is when she'll decide to submit or RUN! If you Bao someone for say, 2k a month, cmon, be practical, even for a local, how to survive? What you got is not a steal, but a shared toilet. So in this light, is it really worth the little money spent let alone, sharing it wif someone else?????? Having a mistress, excuse me, is not a cheap thing, the entire game requires $$$$ and also, a thief to catch a thief mentality. Always know, what you hear isnt real, to outwit them, you have to think like them. What would you do, say think to help you make more money????? This goes through their mind all the time. In this game, there is always a looser. If the man spends more than he wishes to get the meat, he lost. If the gal submits to all your demands and has no bargaining power to squeeze you of more juice, she lost! Remember, NO EMOTIONS! Just treat them as whores and you'll be fine. Once you allow their sweetness and charm to smitten you or have a crush on them, man, you're already dead............ Never tell them your location, movements, or when you're goin to be visiting her at her joint. Just appear, and try to be as mysterious as possible, cos the minute she reads you like a book, she'll be able to play you without you even knowing it.... Actions like these will keep her on her toes, cos remember, when the cat is gone, the rats come out to play.....imagine the anxiety of the cat suddenly appearing.......u know what i mean...imagine living like this everyday n nite.......this would be the kind of pressure you want to instill in her mind Common texts are: Them: 老公， 你在干吗呢？ You :我需要报道给你吗？ Them: 老公，今晚回来看我吗？ You: 我想去就会去， 不用问 Them: 老公， 今晚我放工了我们去宵夜好吗？ You: 我还不饵， 看吧！ Appear 5 mins before they knock off work and say you're here waiting for her for supper.....hahahaha Can you imagine how you'd feel if you were her? There you go The entire charade is to not allow them to pose anything to you, thus will always be placed in the backseat. You drive, they sit, so in very crude term, JUST SHUT UP AND FOLLOW! $$$$$ is the root and most important fundamental of this game. If you want a mistress, in my book, it's called personal toilet, be prepared to spend $$$$$$$ If you cant, suggest you save your money and get STs when avail rather than spending money on a shared toilet, just dun make sense............ These gals are very realistic, so shud we.......
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的，就是你的。 不是你的，不要抢！ 人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene Last edited by DO_YOU_BJ; 25-07-2009 at 02:26 AM.
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25-07-2009, 03:57 AM
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Brilliant brilliant exposition Bro DYBJ! Clap! Clap! Clap!
Thank you so very much for the hard hitting style of Reality Check! Simply loved it! (I read it twice - second time very carefully. And there are indeed many lessons here!)
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"Had we but world enough, and time, This coyness, Lady, were no crime. We would sit down and think which way To walk and pass our long love’s day."
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#269
25-07-2009, 05:50 AM
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excellent articles you contributed bro. salute!
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25-07-2009, 07:04 AM
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Thanks for your compliments Bro Justime, that's my style of writing, and speaking as posted by Bro Colins in another thread hahahahaha
Straight to the point......like i told ya, me not so patient...even to BY a gal, as Bro WarBird can attest to, straight to the point, no need to drama zebra or paiseh.......like that, more relaxing... if everytime paiseh, scared say wrong things, then machiam feeling of constipation hahahahaha Anyway, kudos on this thread, guess bros here in this forum can learn a thing or 2. Like they say, there's no rite or wrong way, just the way you prefer...... Result, get wat you want at the least investment, time, financially & emotionally, only this will determine who's the winner & who not! But fear not, once they kenna KC or burnt cos they didnt read your rules of engagement carefully, there's a Matter of the Heart section for them to pour everything to...... wif many KC doctors there to help dress their wounds or maybe, just plainly, a bullet through their head lol So, there's still lite at the end of the tunnel(for some) hehehehehe Cheers
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的，就是你的。 不是你的，不要抢！ 人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene Last edited by DO_YOU_BJ; 25-07-2009 at 07:18 AM.
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