Threesomes

kathykhr · #1 22-02-2006, 04:30 PM

hi

i have just joined sammyboy and need some advice (see sammy got it right no "s" in advice)

my b/f for 3 yrs he is always wanting sex. even when aunty visits me he insist that i bbbj him. i wont let him cim. i cant do it . it makes me throw up. He is good in bed. Spends hours eating my pussy makes me come 3 or 4 time before his cock is inside. not a big cock quite small actually but he makes up for it cunninglus. I can swallow his whole cock without choking.

he now wants me to join him and a WL in threesomes. he has a hotel 81 picked out. even arranged the girl.

i once told him in my school days i had a fling with my g/f. we both grew out of it. so my b/f is obsessed that he wants a threesome. But I don’t want it. I know him one thing leads to another like kinky sex.

what do i do? i know he fuks behind my back cause he makes atm withdrawals at odd hours and at geylang area. he doesnt know that i can access his bank records.

Do I break up? I miss his hot tongue. Don’t think I can find any one that likes going down on me as much as he does.

defconme · #2 23-02-2006, 04:50 AM

Dear Kathy (lol seem like advise for free newpaper collumist)

What you speak of is variation of your sexual orientation to adapt to your bfren needs. It seems clear to me that you seem to have not problem with his dicking around and his foray into Gelyang and you still accept him as a bfren.

3some is a funny thing its takes a lot og chemistry between the 2 principal people and to allow a stranger to dive into that chemistry need a lot of courage and open mindnesss. Not many are adapting as much as they fantasize of it.

I think you are right if you feel uncomfortable with it and you should not proceed, I also feel since you bend way over backyards to turn the other cheek so to speak on your bfrens dicking around I don't think its the end of the world if you decline him this one part of his fantasy.

As for the tongue... I am sure you will get enough IM here and many would agree wiht em... many more out there will be able to offer you that service. In the end of the day its the chemistry of sex. Hope this helps you cheers

kathykhr · #3 23-02-2006, 05:28 AM

I want my lust satisfied. I want a hot smooth tongue licking away my pussy and not stop till i have cum and cum and cum. presently he is doing a good job.

the trouble with my past b/fs is that they dont have staying power, dont know what turns a girl on or wont dive. also its like its all over in half hour. i assume this is the time allowed in geylang.

thanks for the advice. i feel its time to move on find someone else.

BeachM · #4 23-02-2006, 05:42 AM

i'm sure here got alot of guys who's willing to go down for hours.. i definately love eating pussies alot.. hehe

milo_man · #5 23-02-2006, 05:54 AM

Hi kathykhr, welcum to sbf. I used to face the same problem as ur bf initially wif my exS or even present one..local girls find it hard to bbbj or even cim. However with much determination and caring by showing dat i m willin to eat their cum, they finally did bbbj m even cim all my sperm..U got to tell him u had to feel comfortable b4 u can cim.
As for 3some,i nv ask from them cos i noe they wun feel comfortable even if they agree relectantly..but m sure many bros here would love to have many pussys in 1 session..
I think is quite normal for guys to find WL in GL esp with frens..at least he respect u by not tellin u..so keep an eye close and the other opens. But u got to b careful ( use cd) cos he is exposed to sex diseases.

Hope it helps

N enjoy ur stay

nex_terday · #6 23-02-2006, 08:48 AM

HI Kathy,
CIM is not something many gals enjoy doing. Only a few of the ladies I know find it comfortable, most find the thought of cum in the mouth nauseating maybe cos of the smell or taste. My present gf tried once and gagged but I appreciate her effort and don't insist.

Would agree with the bro that you should be taking extra prescaution if your bf is using WL services, the risks multiple many folds. However, I see it difficult for you to insist he use CD at this time of your relationship as you may have to tell him why you want him to do so.

I go to 81 with my gf every week and we see WL just outside the hotel. Kidded a few times to book one of them to join us. She said ok but she wont join and just sit there and watch!!! LOL. She tried turning the table and she wanted a young men to join us in threesome but I replied I don't mind, can get a close friend to join us...

Point is, don't do something you don't feel comfortable, may mean making sacrifices and really, is ur bf's tonguing all that worth it that you start risking your health for? Like other bros said, there are many in here who are more than willing to do it to you.

Cheers

yanki1 · #7 23-02-2006, 08:59 AM

i can eat a pussy for hours provided it smell and taste nice. you love him or just miss his tongue? if its only the tongue, i believe there are many bro out there whom have great tongue.

dun think many local girls allow cim.

zhivago · #8 23-02-2006, 09:15 AM

kathykhr,
If you do not wish to indulge in your bf interest, do let him know and make him understand. I dun see why a party should be forced to do something which she/he do not enjoy but only to please the other one.

If he do not understand you, then you might as well leave him. There are plenty of nice guys in the "sea" and I'm sure they can sextified you as well as ur current one does.

As you said, his request and fantasies knows no boundaries and one leads to another which in the end might make you more confused and in the end of the day, you'll be treated as sex slave pleasing his master.

Cheers.

euphoria777 · #9 23-02-2006, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by milo_man

.....I think is quite normal for guys to find WL in GL esp with frens..at least he respect u by not tellin u.....

milo_man....sorry to offend but i think what you said is just bull-shit lor.
yes, many guys go for commercial sex, me too......but not telling gf has nothing to do with respect la.

can u imagine the following....

gf : u go call chicken is it?
bf : huh...how u know?
gf : i saw u at GL
bf : errr.....ya....i did call chicken....
gf start crying....
bf : oi....i respect u thats why never tell u leh.....

kathykhr · #10 23-02-2006, 10:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nex_terday

HI Kathy,
Point is, don't do something you don't feel comfortable, may mean making sacrifices and really, is ur bf's tonguing all that worth it that you start risking your health for? Like other bros said, there are many in here who are more than willing to do it to you.

Cheers

those samsters who are "willing to do it to" me are the same like my bf. they vist geylang and cant keep their dick inside. better the devil i know than the one who promise me the world. this way i get to climax and then go on to do other things girls do.

singexpat · #11 23-02-2006, 11:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by euphoria777

can u imagine the following....

gf : u go call chicken is it?
bf : huh...how u know?
gf : i saw u at GL
bf : errr.....ya....i did call chicken....
gf start crying....
bf : oi....i respect u thats why never tell u leh.....

good analogy.. i laugh like mad when i c this...

cannot imagine wat e gf will say next...

yanki1 · #12 23-02-2006, 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by singexpat

good analogy.. i laugh like mad when i c this...

cannot imagine wat e gf will say next...

bro u got kana the toto anot?

i kana tio chia

Sexatronic · #13 23-02-2006, 11:51 AM

Gal,

For obvious reasons, we are no "Aunty Aggie" here dishing out advise on BGR thingy.

But I do know many bros here hv interesting tongues that can do amazing things...