Why do women x drive slows down

[peatcock]

Q&A time...keke

Why do women sex drive tends to slow down after getting married, whereas for the man their sex drive remain more or less the same or else slightly lesser.

Answer: E.g. Husband paying less time with her.

On the contrary, why do a women sex drive increase?

Answer: Take this as an example -> Coz she is a nympho and can never be sextified!!

Bros, please give your most objective answers...thx!

[newbadass]

When I read the thread title, I thought you meant "why do women drive so slowly?"

[peatcock]

Yah bro newbadass how bout a woman driving and drive on top of u?

But, u still havent contribute to my Q&A

[curiosityz]

nice one bro... lol

[no_faith]

lol...bro curiosityz, threadstarter request for ojeective answer for the Q&A, u gave nice one?

Originally Posted by peatcock

Why do women sex drive tends to slow down after getting married, whereas for the man their sex drive remain more or less the same or else slightly lesser.

my answer: there are too much family matters to do and tink of everyday, e.g household chores, children stuff...over exhausted, tired, no energy to tink of sex.

Originally Posted by peatcock

On the contrary, why do a women sex drive increase?

my answer: she is over horny

[D!ckster]

Originally Posted by newbadass

When I read the thread title, I thought you meant "why do women drive so slowly?"...

LOL...i oso same like u bro...tats why came in to read the thread...cos have been frustrated by lady drivers in auto cars for the longest time...

[jkljkl]

Hi.

I actually posted this in another thread.

Here are some answers i found in the net regarding low sex drive. I hope u will find that useful and won't offend u.

It's very common in relationships to start off with a flurry, including lots of sexual encounters. Over time, life between the sheets tends to cool off as everyday routines kick-in. That being said, going from lots of sexual encounters to zero is not normal. This is clearly a sign that something else is going on here.

The big question is what exactly is that "something else?" It could be that she's interested in someone else. It could be that there's nobody else but she's losing interest in this relationship. Or it could be that there's something going on for her personally that she doesn't feel comfortable sharing with you. The point is, you really won't know unless you ask. And you need to ask, but not in a threatening way.

Instead, find a relaxed time to see if she'll open up to you. If it is someone else or a loss of interest in you, better to know now. If it's something else entirely, by being supportive you can find out the truth and support her through it.
Here's some info from some study/research.

Low sex drive affects at least one out of five women in the United States. A study presented at this year's American Psychiatric Association meeting found that bupropion hydrochloride sustained-release tablets may be an effective treatment for some women who suffer from hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD). There is currently no approved drug treatment for low sex drive in women.
Researchers found that almost one-third of the women in the study responded with increases in the number of episodes of sexual arousal, sexual fantasy, and interest in engaging in sexual activity. Women included in the study were aged 23 to 65 and had experienced HSDD for an average of six years. Participants saw improvement as early as two weeks after beginning treatment.

Taylor Segraves, M.D., Ph.D., lead investigator and professor of psychiatry at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine said, "The results of this study are encouraging. One aspect that demonstrated a substantial improvement was that by the end of the treatment phase nearly 40 percent reported being satisfied with their sexual desire, whereas 100 percent were dissatisfied before starting treatment."
Although a person diagnosed with HSDD can still function sexually, the disorder is characterized by a combination of factors including persistently diminished or absent sexual fantasies or desire for sexual activity. Low sex drive is a condition that can cause both emotional distress and problems in intimate relationships, according to Dr. Segraves.

Bupropion hydrochloride SR enhances the presence of neurotransmitters, norepinephrine and dopamine, in the brain and is not associated with the sexual side effects often experienced by patients using selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) anti-depressants such as Prozac, Paxil, and Zoloft.

Is bupropion hydrochloride SR the answer for your low sex drive?
It may be, but even Dr. Segraves agrees that more research is needed on the use of this drug as a treatment for HSDD. The drug is currently approved for the treatment of depression and is marketed as Wellbutrin SR by Glaxo Wellcome Inc.

[Da Vinci]

Originally Posted by D!ckster

LOL...i oso same like u bro...tats why came in to read the thread...cos have been frustrated by lady drivers in auto cars for the longest time...

i also tot he meant, why woman drive slowly on the roads...

woman are slow in alot of things!!! but sex? they are fast and furious, if u ever meet a horny one

[jimmyccc]

wait... i ask them then tell you the answer...

[JediMaster]

my piece of thots...both sexual desire are equal.

Men in nature prefer fresh and there is a lot of avenue for men : Geylang, HC, etc. Being the sole one earning for family (in most cases), men has a lot of free play with time. Hence, men may not seems to be interested when at home, esp after got children when is even more in-convenient. Men sometimes are worst as we will ogle any gals that passed by with standard that your personal taste. Even if is not met, men will still ogle if she dressed sex-ily.

Women in my view also want fresh but they are limited with choices and channels. The only avenue is for them to have it at home and if not married, try to hint to guys to get pick up. They are more to their heart than their mind (unlike men, the other way round). Being deprive of sex, I think that is why they seems to be more hungry when given the opportunity.

Couple with how the community view men and women. It is always ok for the guy to flirt. Other men will admire and other women will wonder if he is good or posses something different. The most kanna caught by family, just say sorry and your parents your in laws will tell your wife to forgive you. They will even praise you if you dun get caught for the rest of your life.

Let's imagine now is a woman who has an affair. the guiltiness and sins will be amplified. Others will insult her as a slut (while men get nice term like 'hua xin' or 'feng liu').

Even with the world progressing and ppl are more opened, this kind of thinking will take sometime to get 'even'. By then, there will be open gigolo shops, HC for women, etc. Then maybe you will see women will be less excited about sex...

[surfer888]

They slow down after marriage as they tend to have more stuff in the car and normally, driving a lower cc car, additional weight does have impact on the vehicle's performance.

It slows down even more after childbirth as modern carseats can be quite heavy especially the successful brands like Graco, Aprica, etc tend to have more baggage and features.

Ohhh.... sex drive.....

They slow down after marriage as they tend to have more stuff at home and normally, living in their first home together, additional chores do have impact on the woman's performance.

It slows down even more after childbirth as modern women can be quite busy especially the successful women like Senior Managers, Directors etc tend to have more baggage and features.

[peatcock]

Why do women sex drive decreases:

Common answers:
Basically if she works, and comes back from work need to take care of
kids, do household chores...this will diminish their sex desires. Just
imagine she would be to shag to even want to have sex.

Secondly, in most relationships, the husband or man just want satisfy
their desires, pump & bang and get over it. As such the intimacy levels
is not build up. Most woman like to be romanced and assured continually
that they are loved and not used as a sex object which quite true.

Thirdy, most man tend to limit their sexual position to missionary or
woman on top(cowgal), thus making sex a boring or routine workout.
Guys, we need to read more on kamasutra and try various positions.
Another contributing factor is that mostly the xxx is done in the matrimonial bed or boyfriend/girlfriends home.

Usually for couple in their initial romancing period, the xxx was always sexciting coz probably did it in the car at some secluded places or multi-storey car park, xxx in the lift or stairways, xxx in the forest area, xxx at the beach or even in the swimming pool. This all died away when one just do it at home. Sex in public places usually increases the xxx desire coz anytime could be found out by people.

However, for most women, if their husband/ boyfriends finds them attractive and he takes the effort to book a hotel room, wah this want sure can work but not 100% full proof hor. Build the atmosphere, get a bottle of red wine, champagne, make sure rooms got candle or orange lights, pour some lavender or some rose petals into the bath-tub (make sure got bath-tub), and hey presto u are on the right track. But bear in mind if that day her Aunty come, than all the hard work goes into the drain. Make sure u ask her that time of the month come or not!


Why do women sex drive increases:
Hmmm, basically very few would fit into this category, haha...If got, I also want to source(try) for them. Yupz some brudas said they are horny, but this percentage would be marginal. Lets say only 10-15% in this category.

Common answers:
Husband/boyfriend travelling frequently so got no time to shag with them.
As this frustration of uncontinued or limited sex builds up, causes them
to want to break-out from desperation.

In our society, there would be those women who are more open to Western culture, so its rather out of curiosity to try other races and nationality that makes them want to gather more experiences. Yah another thing is sometimes they like to make comparisons like angmoh deeks quite big and long so can penetrate deeper, so and so forth.

But frankly speaking for each their own to finding their avenues to satisfy their desires be it taking a holiday off with their spouse/girlfriend to get away from their country that is why we Asians like to travel so much!!

Well guys please give me more of your opinions and if they are samsters here who are ladies, please also give me your humble opinions, thanks a lot!!

[peatcock]

Must add one more, sometimes is the man got the problem...

Yeah heard about some guys in some thread (banker hubby) that ejaculated even b4 penetration thus not satisfying the wife xxx needs. Wonder where to find these women & sure got a lot pent-up desires, keke.....

So having kids somehow reduces the sexual activities btw husband & wife as no privacy, gotta do it when the kids are asleep or out with their grandparents.